Shoppers Comment On New Mall Youth Policy
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Posted: 8:08 PM Jul 12, 2008
Last Updated: 10:55 PM Jul 12, 2008
Reporter: Chris Brennaman
Email Address: chris.brennaman@wtok.com

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On a Saturday afternoon the mall is filled with a wide variety of people, both young and old. But many weekends after the sun goes down, the demographics of the customers often changes, leaning more toward the under-18 crowd. Many people have expressed concern that that age group was creating an environment that was unsafe. So Bonita Lakes Mall did what a dozen other CBL malls have done, it instituted a policy that limits unsupervised youth.

"As a mother of teenagers and went through that already, it's hard to keep track of a child, especially when they try to sneak around and stuff. I always knew where mine were," said Sherl Lewis - Bonita Lakes Mall Customer.

The policy, which goes into effect on July 25th, requires anyone under the age of 18 to be with a parent or guardian after 6:00 on Friday and Saturday nights. Mall officials were a bit apprehensive before the policy was announced, but they say most feedback has been positive.

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Posted by: ANONYMUS Location: MERIDIAN on Jul 14, 2008 at 04:37 PM
FIRST OF ALL I'M A PARENT OF AN ADULT YOUNGMAN. I TRULY BELIEVE THAT IF YOU ARE GOING TO ADDRESS ONE ISSUE YOU SHOULD ADDRESS THEM ALL; THERE IS TRULY MUCH CONFUSION ON NORTH HILLS STREET AS THE MALL. THE YOUNG PEOPLE ON NORHT HILL STREET HAVE FREE COURSE. I'AM A FIRM BELIEVER THAT ONE GOOD DEED DESERVES ANOTHER, STOP THE KIDS FROM HANGING OUT ON NORTH HILLS STREET. PERHAPS IT'S BECAUSE THEY ARE A DIFFERENT GROUP OF KIDS THAT JUSTIFIES THE PREFERENTIAL TREATMENT.

Posted by: Sue Location: Meridian on Jul 14, 2008 at 11:33 AM
Kids are allowed to run "free" a bit too much these days. It would be nice if they had a few places where they could "hang" out & do things such as see movies, play pool, bowling, skating or just sit aound & play a jukebox. If all this was a one location, it'd be even better. But, where ever the kids go, they MUST be responsible for their own actions. Parents should never be punished or pay fines for someone else's actions. This place should have a charge to enter, and if they get out of line, sit them in a room; if they want to act like elementary kids, ..treat them like it. If the same kids keep disobeying the rules, they shouldn't be allowed back for a while. People have to learn that they are responsible for themselves; everyone shouldn't be punished for the "rowdy" kids who don't follow rules.

Posted by: Janet Location: meridian on Jul 14, 2008 at 09:04 AM
The mall did the right thing. I only wish they would have added the clause," Pants should be worn at the waist and not down around your knees."

Posted by: spend no money Location: meridian on Jul 14, 2008 at 03:05 AM
FIRST I WOULD LIKE TO SAY THANK YOU WALMART We for one will shop where our kids are welcome.and if we want to go to the mall we will go out of town to do so ALABAMA I guess we will suport Alabama not Mississippi.Not all kids are bad I to shop at the mall and yes at the mall and what I see most is the 18 and up giving the problems BUT NOT ALL THE KIDS ARE BAD 15,16,17,18,AND UP YOU HAVE SOME IN THERE 20'S AND UP how can you say it is the youth and I'm not saying that the youth 15 and up are perfit yes you have trouble with them too.all i can say is when there is trouble call the police and take care of that probem dont take away our kis rights there are good kids and bad kids and it is up to you to do your job not take away from all.iI for one DONOTuse the mall as a baby sitter and it make me mad for you to say that.SO my money goes else where AND THANK YOU WALMART AND OTHER STORES THAT DO NOT TAKE AWAY FROM OUR KIS.if all parents would stop spending money there then things would change

Posted by: D.P. Location: MERIDIAN on Jul 14, 2008 at 02:48 AM
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if we send this message to our kids that just make them what they are today.kids under 15 yea have your parents with you but 15-18 let them be. FOR ME MY CREDIT CARD OR MY 100.00 GIVE OR TAKE WILL GO ELSE WHERE

Posted by: Kay Location: Maridian on Jul 14, 2008 at 12:05 AM
Alot of parents use the mall as a baby sitting facility to get their kids out of their hair. They could care less what they are doing of who they are doing it with. I'm glad that this law has come into effect & sure hope that they will enforce it. IT"S ABOUT TIME!!!

Posted by: KB Location: MERIDIAN on Jul 13, 2008 at 10:49 PM
WE ALL WAS TEENAGERS ONCE, AND WE USED TO HANG OUT SOME WHERE, WE DO NEED TO FIND SOME RECREATIONAL ACTIVITIES FOR OUR YOUTH BECAUSE THERE ISN'T VERY MUCH FOR THE YOUTHS TO DO. THE PARK, BOWLING, AND SKATING CAN ONLY DO SO MUCH FOR OUR KIDS. THESE KIDS ARE A TOTALLY DIFFERENT GENERATION THAN WE WERE. THEY COULD BE DOING SOMETHINGS WAY WORSE THAN HANGING IN THE MALL SUCH AS SELLING DRUGS, ROBBING PEOPLE, OR KILLING. WE NEED TO TAKE A SURVEY AND FIND OUT WHAT OUR YOUTHS LIKE TO DO AND ARE DOING AND US PARENTS, THE COMMUNITY, AND OFFICIALS SHOULD TRY TO COME UP WITH A SOLUTION. ALSO, IF WE ARE GOING TO CORRECT THE PROBLEMS AT THE MALL, LETS CORRECT THE PROBLEMS ON NORTH HILLS STREET, ON FRIDAY AND SATURDAY NIGHTS THERE ARE KIDS HANGING OUT THERE, SPEEDING UP AND DOWN THE STREETS AND IN AND OUT OF RESTAURANTS, ALMOST RUNNING OVER YOU. THESE KIDS ARE HANGING IN THE MALL BUT ALL OF THEM ARE NOT BEING DISRESPECTFUL AND OUT OF CONTROLL. DON'T LET ONE BAD APPLE RUIN IT FOR EVERYONE.

Posted by: DALE Location: MERIDIAN on Jul 13, 2008 at 09:05 PM
BORDOM IN MERIDIAN.THE OLD FOLKS BUILT THE AGE CENTER.WHAT A WASTE.LETS GET IT RIGHT THIS TIME AND BUILD A ? I'LL GIVE YOU A HINT.(a big round building were the romes used go?)HOW ABOUT WERE THE CHILDREN CAN GO,INSTEAD TO THE MALL.

Posted by: Larry Location: Meridian on Jul 13, 2008 at 07:11 PM
We were responsible for our three children and we knew where they were,who they were with,and we believe that the parents of all children are the ones to be responsable for thier own!!! If they cannot or will not control them,then take thier rights away.Punish the parents,they then will take that responsability if not,take the kids!! Its time Fathers and Mothers took charge of thier own!!! I comment the Mall officials on doing what they can to make the mall save.!

Posted by: LeeAnn Location: FL & MS on Jul 13, 2008 at 06:14 PM
As a frequent visitor to your area, I can understand both sides of this concern. There are those parents who their children are actually in the mall for a valid reason...either shopping or attending the theater. Then there are those who let their offspring go to the mall because the little darlings are now out of Mommy or Daddys hair. By the mall having to take drastic measures by no longer allowing the teens there unescorted, is the fault of the parents for lack of proper parenting. If those few who make it bad for all were raised properly and taught to respect others and others property, this ban would NOT have had to take place. Meridian is not the only place. There are malls all over this country that have had to implement this measure because the rowdy ones made it bad for the rest. As a frequent visitor to your area and going to the mall to shop or view a film, I have seen first hand what goes on and despite not every teen being involved, it does reflect upon them all.

Posted by: Well on Jul 13, 2008 at 04:07 PM
Judging from the posts, maybe grammar lessons are a good way to keep everyone busy.

Posted by: Hmmm... Location: Meridian on Jul 13, 2008 at 03:41 PM
It seems that no post has yet addressed the crux of the issue. While aggravation with the mall's policy is understandable, no policy would have been necessary had the young patrons simply behaved themselves. There is no facility, youth, community, shopping, or otherwise, that would or could allow other patrons to be intimidated. They certainly could not allow unwanted sexual comments and advances against female patrons. Imagine the lawsuits! If the youth of the community, or anyone else, for that matter, want to be welcomed in a facility, then they need to behave respectfully. The amount of money they spend does not allow them to behave in such a manner as to necessitate an escort policy. This is a lesson of personal responsibility that is painful for everyone, as it affects offenders and nonoffenders. Proper behavior will gain you access to many places. If you CHOOSE to behave otherwise, then that is your CHOICE, and these are your CONSEQUENCES. As for the parents, PARENT!

Posted by: candice Location: meridian on Jul 13, 2008 at 02:49 PM
My husband and I went to BLM 2 years ago to catch a late movie and a fight broke out and the mall had to cleared out. I guess there were 500 teenagers in the food court area and it was scary. malls are not a place to" hang".As a teenager (in the early 80's) I did'nt have time or the money to hang @ the mall. We were kept busy with chores, church, family events. Parents should see that their children are busy and do not have a endless supply of money. We never said we were bored or did'nt have anything to do (even if it was so). Float the river. go fishin, volunteer. Kids dont have to be entertained every second of the day. It's not going to hurt for them to use their imagination, read a book, Visit grandparent or other family members. Help someone. and yes i do have children. age 19 and 22

Posted by: susan Location: stonewall on Jul 13, 2008 at 02:14 PM
We parents DO NOT use the mall as a babbie sitter.Our kids spend money at the mall.If parents would shop else where then maybe they will get the message.Parent give money to these kids to spend ther.We do not use the mall we pay the mall maybe they need to understand that.The mall is not just for elder people .To me you are discrimanting the youth .We should take our money and shop where the youth is welcome.We as parents thought this was a safe place for our kids.If the kids are out in the parking lot I could understand making them leave.SO parents go somewhere else.

Posted by: bobbie Location: meridian on Jul 13, 2008 at 01:56 PM
I think if we as parents would not shop at the mall on weekend they would see how it is.The kids that come to the mall has spent alot of money there.We give our kids money to spend there I could see or understand if kids are under 15 OUR kids have nothing to do as it is.And if they are spending money what is the problem?I for one will not shop at the mall.

Posted by: Carol Location: Meridian on Jul 13, 2008 at 12:55 PM
It is such a shame that some unruly kids ruin it for the rest of the kids. I agree that there is nothing in Meridian for the young crowd. Meridian may be a certified retirement community but what would happen if all the families moved away? What would Meridian be like then? I have a 16 yr old who is very involved in church activities and the group goes to movies at the mall. What will happen now? Will they no longer be allowed? What about the unruly ones over 18 yrs old? What are you going to do about them? Is this not a form of discrimination?

Posted by: Beverly Location: Lauderdale County on Jul 13, 2008 at 08:06 AM
I agree with the new mall policy - it's about time! Jimmy, there IS something in Meridian for that age group to do; there's a new place on North Hills St. called "The Park", where Ultimate Fun World used to be.

Posted by: Anonymous on Jul 13, 2008 at 12:59 AM
I am sure the positive feedback that the mall officials are getting its from men and women thats either your elderly, parents that think kids should have a life and hang out at a safe place with their friends, cuz they probably didnt know what it was like to have friends to hang with. GET THESE KIDS SOMETHING TO DO AROUND HERE.

Posted by: Anonymous on Jul 13, 2008 at 12:41 AM
I AGREE WITH JIMMY FROM MERIDIAN. I AM TIRED OF BEING DONE THAT ONLY INTEREST OLDER CROWDS. WORKING WITH TEENS I HEAR THEM TALK ABOUT THINGS THEY ARE GOING TO BE DOING. ALOT OF THE TIMES ITS GOING TO A CAMP OR SOMEONES HOME TO HAVE A PARTY GET DRUNK, HAVE SEX WITH THE FIRST GIRL THAT WILL LET THEM. COME UP WITH A SOLUTION THAT WILL GIVE THESE TEENS SOMETHING INTERESTING TO DO BESIDES BOWLING, GOIN TO THE MOVIES, OR SKATING. AS FOR JOHNATHON AND SHANNON, UNLESS YOU WERE JUST AN OUTCAST, YOU SHOULD KNOW WHAT ITS LIKE TO BE A TEENAGER AND WANT TO GO AND HANG OUT SOMEWHERE SAFE AND WHERE YOUR FRIENDS ARE. I AM NOT SAYING ITS RIGHT TO DROP YOUR CHILDREN OFF AND JUST LEAVE THEM AND SURE THERE ARE SOME THAT CAN CAUSE PROBLEMS. WHO SAYS THAT THESE CHILDREN ARE NOT SPEADING MONEY AT THE MALL WHILE THEY ARE THERE. WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO IT. WHAT ARE THESE CHILDREN GING TO DO NOW. GO TO THE CAMP DRINK AND MAYBE DRIVE HOME AND JUST MAYBE KILL TEMSELVES OR SOMEONE ELSE.

Posted by: Danielle on Jul 12, 2008 at 11:52 PM
I think this is wonderful. I no long live in Meridian but when I did I went out of my way to avoid the mall after dark because of kids that were hanging around unsupervised. I also agree with Jimmy's comment about the need for activities for kids now that they dont have the mall. I think the policy is a first step towards focusing Meridians youth on more positive activities now we just need more parent involvment.

Posted by: Tim Location: Lauderdale co. on Jul 12, 2008 at 11:16 PM
Once again the comment about "there is nothing for the kids in Meridian to do." That is a bunch of b/s. The problem is that many parents just want a place to drop off their kids,and not take up time with them. I realize that some of these parent's have jobs and/or do not have the money to do things with their kids, however; the mall, or any other retail center, is not the place for the kids to hang-out. These places are in the retail business, not baby-sitting. The mall has become a very dangerous place, especially on the weekends because of all of the "thugs" that hang-out in "packs" just looking to start a fight. It is up to the parents,churches, and other community agencies to find things for the kids to do. One thing that CBL might consider in the future when constructing a mall is to have the theaters in a detached location on the mall property where the other businesses of the mall will not have to deal with as much juvenile traffic that are "attending the movies."

Posted by: Jimmy Location: Meridian on Jul 12, 2008 at 10:06 PM
The problem is that there is nothing in meridian for that age group to do. quit spending money on riley center and things that appeal to the over 40 crowd. Bring concerts for young people and more recreational things. get young people's idea's instead of the city council as for what the city needs.

Posted by: Jonathan Location: Philadelphia, MS on Jul 12, 2008 at 09:37 PM
I don't understand why this is so controversial. The mall is doing what it needs to do in order to remain a competative place to shop. They are merely looking out for their interests and the interests of those who actually go to the mall to spend money. Most (not all) kids go to the mall just to have a place to hang out. They need to know that the mall is not their playground. Parents are also to blame. Many drop their kids off and use the mall as a glorified babysitter. I applaud CBL for finally taking a stand and I know that I will enjoy going to the mall more now.

Posted by: Shannon Location: Meridian on Jul 12, 2008 at 08:40 PM
i think they should have policy for children to be with their parents after 6 p.m. its an headache going to the mall on Friday nights to shop when you have as young as 13 year olds running around making all sorts of noise its like the mall has become a daycare and the parents just drop them off to get rid of them I TOTALLY AGREE with this new policy and hope that it will stand

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