Evacuations Raise Topic of Personal Responsibility
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Meridian, Miss.
Posted: 6:45 PM Sep 4, 2008
Last Updated: 8:30 AM Sep 5, 2008
Reporter: Lindsey Brown
Email Address: lindsey.brown@wtok.com

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It isn't just a local issue. Evacuees across the region say they are low on funds and need more help than many relief agencies are able to provide.

"We took what money, which wasn't much, it was bill money. Now we're going back and we ain't got money to pay bills," said James Pratt, Sr., an evacuee in Texas.

But for some in the community, the requests for more, more, more has them saying, enough is enough. The Rev. John Sweeney, founder of Victory Outreach Center, which operates a bargain store and a food kitchen, says he hears that often.

"Once people feel burned, when they give to help someone and they feel unappreciated, they are hesitant to help again," said Sweeney.

Sweeney has worked with people in need for decades. While many requests for help are legitimate, he says he has found that there are people more than happy to take as much as they can get.

"We have the needy, but sadly we also have the greedy," said Sweeney. "And sometimes they work the system; they go from church to church, agency to agency, and we try to put them through a screening process. Sometimes we get criticized for that, but we feel that the best way to help someone is to really help them."

One of the things stressed at Victory Outreach is personal responsibility, making the choice to help yourself if you can.

Dr. Susan Eaves, a behavioral specialist with Weems Community Mental Health, says some of the evacuees could be feeling the same panic they felt during Katrina, even if from the outside the situation is viewed differently.

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Posted by: Sam Location: Dallas on Sep 13, 2008 at 03:35 AM
I have the ability to shelter an Ike evacuee....

Posted by: Maurice L Location: Meridian on Sep 6, 2008 at 09:42 AM
How many vehicles was really needed to get here? How many of these people above age 12 have a personal cell phone? When the TV station came by how many asked for short term job to pay their way back home? I would have gladly paid them $100.00 to cut my yard, about a two hour job,and more than it's worth. This would be my way of helping.

Posted by: ANITA Location: COLLINSVILLE on Sep 5, 2008 at 04:58 PM
I FEEL SORRY,FOR THE NEEDY.I CAN'T IMAGINEHAVING TO LEAVE MY HOME.NOT KNOWING WHAT CONDITION-(OR IF IT WILL BE THERE WHEN I RETURN.I WORK IN TOWN.MY HUSBAND & I BOTH WORK FULL TIME JOBS,I SEAL WITH CUSTOMERS EVERY DAY THAT WANT SOMETHING FOR NOTHING.AND THEY KNOW HOW TO WORK EVERY SYSTEM.I ALSO DO NOT AGREE THAT WE SHOULD KEEP TAKING CARE OF WELFARE MOMS-AND THEY KEEP HAVING MORE KIDS FOR US TO TAKE CARE OF.I THINK THE GOVERMENT SHOULD LIMIT THOSE ON THE WELFARE RIDE TO 2 KIDS/HAVE THEM MANDORTORY-HAVE TUBES TIED.THAT WOULD COST LESS THEN THE WORKING FOLKS TAKING CARE OF 4 & 5 KIDS TILL THEY LIVE THE SAME WAY AS ADULTS.GET A JOB & A LIFE!!!HELP THE NEEDY-NOT THE GREEDY...

Posted by: Ruth on Sep 5, 2008 at 02:19 PM
I am grateful that generous souls like Luther Gordon exist in our community. He loves the Lord and is trying to do His work. Praise God. He will be blessed. And I truly believe that if the recipients of this generosity did not have real need, then God Himself will take that money from them and much more, seventy times seven. If they had true need, this godly example of compassion should encourage them to work to change their circumstances.

Posted by: Chris Location: Meridian on Sep 5, 2008 at 02:09 PM
God says I will have compassion on whom I will have compassion Ro. 9:15. With that said we should all be led by the Holy Spirit as to whom we should or shouldn't help and not be so quick to criticize. I know that when I saw this segment I wondered how much is spent on cell phones and if there are 20 members in this family how many of them that are able to work do so and if for three years you can't save enough for your own personal emegency fund why blame the goverment for not doing so. Maybe it is because people aren't being tought the commonsence way of living but have become dependent on the way of the world, either way ignorance is no excuse. I to have a hard time listening to stories such as this it makes it hard to sort out the truth but I know if I am led by the Lord He will show what is truth and what is not.

Posted by: T. Location: Meridian on Sep 5, 2008 at 12:00 PM
The posted comments haven't been done in hate at all. People are just tired of watching other abled bodied individuals take advantage of generosity w/ no accountability for making their OWN way. I've had to use bill money to cover costs associated w/ preparing for the storm and through extra work, I'm making up the diff now.I wouldn't call my life "comfy" as C. suggests below, but I know my limits and am a responsible adult.I don't use my money to go out to eat, get my hair or nails done, buy cigarettes, or deck out my car (and for that matter, I don't own an RV!!) instead of taking care of immediate needs for my family.When I see someone abusing govt programs that is in better health than I am, it is infuriating.What's even worse is when someone who barely works at all draws several thousand $ in Unearned income credit from taxes due to 5 kids!If these evacuees truely needed help, their first move should have been to thank those that had already cared for them thru food and shelter.

Posted by: Monica Sweeney Kennedy Location: USA on Sep 5, 2008 at 11:21 AM
I think they need to take responsibilty for their families by preparing for these type situations. They know they are living in a place where hurricanes and floods can happen. It's not like it's the first storm to come through the area. They should try to set aside an emergency fund to cover the costs of evacuation such as; food, gas, shelter, and gas to return home. As far as community responsibility is concerned, I think evacuees from Katrina may have put a bad taste in their mouths. Some of those evacuees took shelter in very nice facilities accross the country such as; five star hotels, schools, and churches with nice family life centers. NOT ALL but some of these facilities had to actually remodel afterwards due to damage caused by these needy people. I am sure there are some very decent folks who were gracious to recieve help but the ones who PLAN to beg and then complain about it really ruin it for those "truly in need". Making the choice to try and help yourself is the best.

Posted by: Mom of 2 Location: meridian on Sep 5, 2008 at 10:47 AM
You know what.........there is no hatred here. I do feel bad for most that evacuated. What I do not feel bad for is those that choose to have 6 or more children while they are beating the system. Using the taxpayers HARD EARNED money to live off of. My taxes are paying for these people to stay on the system and have more children they have no business having. If you can't support 1 or 2 why have MORE??? I see this every day, even here in Meridian. Folks on welfare, diving nicer cars than we could ever dream of, and have RV's. I work my tail off to get what I have, not living off the system. I have only 2 children, and I have used bill money to eat or get gas. I just think that people should not take advantage of the system, because there are truly people out there that NEED the help, not just expect it.

Posted by: Working Mom Location: Meridian on Sep 5, 2008 at 09:35 AM
This issue is not something new brought on by the hurricane. There are way too many people living off the system- expecting everything be given to them for free. One person wrote- do you really think an evacuee can get a job in less than 1 wk? Well, no probably not. But the point is- many of these people don't have jobs back at home either. They are used to getting everything for free and don't know the meaning of the word WORK. I've been a single mom working hard to make ends meet. Sometimes working 2 jobs. I have only 1 child (because I have enough sense to know I cannot afford to have more). It's time the local and federal govt stopped giving hand outs to people who make a living off having as many babies as possible and start making them work for the assistance they receive. Otherwise, there's no incentive for the "takers" out there to work for a living.

Posted by: AD Location: SCOOBA on Sep 5, 2008 at 06:50 AM
I AM MY BROTHERS KEEPER IS A GREAT PHILOSOPHY, ANOTHER IS "YOU DON'T WORK YOU DON'T EAT"

Posted by: B Location: Meridian on Sep 5, 2008 at 06:40 AM
No, I do not expect the children to work, I am not cruel. I just think that if the adults used more common sense they could have done something to keep a little money to get home on. There was no need to go out to eat, the shelters provided food. There was no need to buy smokes, buy gas instead. As for work, I did not mean to get a full time job, duh. I simply meant that instead of complaining that they did not have money, they could have said, I will do odd jobs to earn my way back home. Meridian did not get a hard hit from this, they could have mowed yards, cleaned yards, anything, instead of expecting money to fall into their hands. I am sure there are a few people here that would have been happy to pay someone to do some odd jobs around the house. Get real people. Just a bunch of "GIMMES".

Posted by: c. Location: meridian on Sep 5, 2008 at 01:16 AM
The raw hatred in some of these comments is terrifying, and the total lack of empathy is depressing and disgusting. Not everyone is able to have the same comfy lifestyle you do, you all should be ashamed of yourselves. Sickening.

Posted by: Dray Location: Meridian on Sep 5, 2008 at 12:27 AM
Its obvious that the person that thinks that $40 is so easy to come by probaly never had to spend ther rent money or bill money to suvive.

Posted by: Da One Location: Meridian on Sep 4, 2008 at 10:42 PM
Amen to what B stated. It's called common sense people!!They should have factored in gas money to get here & back, not act like it was a free vacation and now expect a free ride home.The people who had no transportation had buses, planes, and trains to get them back and forth. I guess they thought FEMA was going to issue credit cards like they did last time,well the greedy people who misused them took care of that. Personal responsibility....it ain't rocket science!!!

Posted by: lori Location: local on Sep 4, 2008 at 10:41 PM
everyone is responsiable for their own actions. if these people had stayed in LA they would be fussing about the conditions there. i have realized with these types of people "there ain't no pleasing them" either give them money or they will whine and complain your ear off.

Posted by: Jerry Location: Meridian on Sep 4, 2008 at 09:26 PM
It's past time for people to take charge of their own lives and take care of themselves and stop expecting someone else to always do it for them! I'm tired of seeing these individuals with their hand out all the time wanting everything for free. Grow up!

Posted by: Anonymous Location: Meridian on Sep 4, 2008 at 08:35 PM
Do people honestly think that an evacuee could obtain a job after being in town only 1 week? Doing what? I can't imagine an employer hiring someone who was planning to return to the hurricane area. What about the children who have left their homes? Do you want them to work also?

Posted by: B Location: Meridian on Sep 4, 2008 at 06:54 PM
Mr. Sweeney got that right, we do have the "needy" but we have way too may "GREEDY". Too many greedy people take away from those who are truly needy. At least the good people of Meridian gave them a dry place to sleep and food to eat, now they want us to pay for the gas they need??? I think not!!! Go out, get a job. Maybe some should not have spent that money on so much take out and stuff they did not need. I know how it is not to have the money you want or need, but if I need gas to get home then I will work for it, not expect it to fall into my hands, because it won't happen.

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